Spring 2024 was the first season I began volunteering as head coach of the Lancaster U10 boys soccer team. We started practices one or two weeks before the eight-week season began — training twice a week and playing games every Saturday morning. One week we hosted in Lancaster, and the next week we played away, sometimes traveling 30 to 45 minutes to the opponent’s field.
I will share the story of how I became a coach in another article. In this post, I simply want to focus on my first experience working with these kids.
As someone who started playing soccer at the age of six or seven — on dirt fields — and who still plays today, I may not have been an exceptional player, but I developed a strong understanding of the game. I came into this season with ideas I wanted to implement. However, there were challenges.
Just like anywhere in the world, talent levels varied. We had strong players, average players, and some who were touching a soccer ball for the very first time. That made the job more difficult. If winning were the only goal, some players would have spent most of their time on the bench. But if player development and parent satisfaction were priorities, then ideal results might not be expected.
My challenge was to manage both — performance and participation — in the best possible way. The result? We finished the tournament in first place.
If you’re interested in how we achieved that balance, stay with me until the end of this blog.






